S.F. says:
In fact, at least four different people in the games I've played said openly they don't read what I write. That included both GMs and players.
Hard to call something like that a game even, when the ST/GM won't read playing messages.. Wild.
I personally do try to keep up with players in my games by asking them what direction they want to take the character and what topic, themes and elements they want to explore, but I also could probably do a better job of it. What definitely helps is some feedback - if you (and I mean generic "you", not you in particular S.F.) have any thoughts or desires about your character or the game - do express them to your STs/GMs! We're here to facilitate a fun and interest for everyone, after all.
On a side note, this is an interesting question - as a player, do you read other players posts and material intended for them, like their solo threads or lengthy responses from NPCs addressed to them specifically?